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Shut Up and Dance 2021

A Pentecost message featuring dry bones, an upper room, personal narrative and a favorite song.  

Do you like to dance? Boy, I sure do.

When Kathi and I married 20 years ago, our first dance was to UB40s version of the song Can’t Help Falling in Love with You.  We picked that song and version, because that’s what was playing in the background during our first kiss, way back when in the Spring of 1995. We were in a gazebo near college in Valparaiso Indiana, it had begun to rain ever so softly. As we leaned in for that first kiss the song echoed in our heads. Kathi and I wanted to bring that moment with us into our first dance, and into our marriage for years to come.

These days many of our newer dance moves come from the kids. They were the first to teach us the dab. And the floss. Which has variations Graham was telling me about yesterday including one handed and no handed versions. The latter I can actually do. A floss without hands is really just moving your hips back and forth. Easy enough.

And then there’s the random dance interludes that sometimes occur when we’re watching tv and a favorite song comes on. Graham will pop up first and do his thing, followed shortly by Hannah. Sometimes they talk mom and dad to join in the fun, and when they do our Jack Russel Terrier adds herself in and the five of us collectively move and laugh and dab and talk and jump and floss and bark together for a spell. It is wonderful.

For our entire family, music, and the dance it encourages, serves as a release, from our daily cares, from our anxious moments, into a place of motion, of peace, of life.

This concept of motion, and the life it brings is part of scripture from the very beginning. In the creation story found in Genesis 1, verse two, the Spirit of God moved over the waters, before God separated the darkness and the light. Other translations say it a little differently, that the Spirit of God hovered, swept over, or came like a mighty wind. In each, the takeaway is the same: motion precedes life.

Ezekiel’s Dance
The passage from Ezekiel 37, the story of bringing dry bones to life, is another one of those moments where motion precedes life. The translation we’re using today, the Message, says it like this:

“GOD grabbed me. GOD’s Spirit took me up and led me around a lot of bones! There were bones all over, bleached by the sun. God’s Spirit said to me, “Son of man, can these bones live?” I said, “O GOD, only you know.” The Spirit said to me, “Prophesy over these bones: ‘Dry bones, listen to the Message of GOD!’”

And then God told the dry bones, “Watch this: I’m bringing the breath of life to you and you’ll come to life. I’ll attach sinews to you, put meat on your bones, cover you with skin, and breathe life into you. You’ll come alive and you’ll realize that I am GOD!”

And that’s exactly what happens. Ezekiel prophesies over the bones and God moves, putting bone to bone, attaching bones with sinews, putting meat on those bones, covering it all with a new coat of skin. And then God’s Spirit breathes into those bones, bringing life out of death. Re-creating what had been horribly, horribly broken. Taking stillness and finality and moving it into a place of motion. Making it possible for God’s people to dance, once again.

“God grabbed me”, scripture says. “God’s Spirit took me up and led me.” It reminds me of a middle school prom, with boys sheepishly on one side of the room, girls on the other. And in the middle of all that awkwardness, hope and expectation, God’s Spirit grabs you, takes you, and leads you into the dance. Hold on to that thought, of being grabbed, and led by the Spirit, we’ll come back to it a bit later.

The Apostle’s Dance
Our text from Acts 2 is another one of those moments where the Spirit’s motion precedes life. Many of those gathered in the upper room that day had traveled, worshiped, served, performed miracles right alongside Jesus for three years. And then, over the course of six weeks, they experienced his death, resurrection and ascension. At that point Jesus was no longer with them, at least in bodily form.

Imagine what those gathered there that day might have been thinking. Where did he go? When will he return? What should we do now? Perhaps too they felt fear, not knowing what would come next.

Then, in the midst of all those unknowns, a roar of wind entered the room. Flames of fire danced over each person, filling them with the Holy Spirit. New languages were spoken, and understood by everyone, regardless of their native tongue. When the Spirit moved that day it broke down walls that divide: walls of language, of ethnicity, of nationality, of religious difference. Separation yielded to unity.

The Holy Spirit was in motion that day, taking the early Christ-followers from a place of uncertainty to one of joy. From there the one hundred and twenty went out into the surrounding countryside, guided by the Spirit, bringing new hope, new life, new motion to all of creation.

What amazes me about these ancient stories is how God’s Spirit shows up in such surprising ways. Before creation was created, the Spirit was there, moving over the waters. In a valley of dry bones the Spirit was there, breathing new life into what had been long since dead. In the upper room, amongst so much uncertainty, the Spirit moved, bringing with it joy, unity, and purpose.

Stories of the Spirit are not relegated to the past. That same Spirit continues to move in our world today, still in unexpected ways.

As just one modern example, I’d like to tell you a personal story and what the experience now means to me.

Personal Dance
The day, six years ago, started out normally enough; I found myself in South Florida traffic, driving to work. I was serving as a hospice chaplain at the time. Chaplaincy is one of the requirements during seminary on the road toward becoming ordained.

Hospice chaplains have the honor of providing connection and spiritual care for patients nearing death. As is true of much of seminary the experience is designed to crack you open, broaden your perspectives. All these new experiences ideally help you process your own baggage, before becoming a pastor and helping people to overcome theirs.

And yes, we all have our own baggage to deal with, it is part of what makes us human.

There I was, driving to a chaplains meeting, listening to the radio. I remember hearing the song, Shut up and Dance, by the group Walk the Moon, starting to play. You may be familiar with it, it hit #1 in the Billboard charts that summer.

At the time of this personal epiphany I’d heard the song a few times before, and remembered liking it. But there was something in this particular moment struck me in a new way.

In this secular song I now heard the Holy Spirit, and understood a major depressive episode I’d had a few years ago, and saw it in a new light. The song hit me hard enough that I sat there, in the car, driving on the highway, and was moved to tears.
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I’d like to share with you what these lyrics now mean to me. To take this journey into new meaning consider a Holy Spirit calling us away from our baggage, our brokenness and towards a new walk, or perhaps a dance, with the divine.

We’ll go through the lyrics line by line.

In this story the Holy Spirit is feminine. In Hebrew the word for spirit is ruach which has a feminine derivative. The story we heard earlier from Ezekiel also uses ruach; the notion of a feminine Spirit is all over the Old Testament, which doesn’t get talked about near enough as perhaps it should. A tangent for another day.

Anyhow, song lyrics will also be shown on the screen to help you follow along.

The song begins (lyrics are in bold): Oh don’t you dare look back just keep your eyes on me.  When hearing this I’m reminded of when I was agonizing over whether to keep my job in corporate America. At the time I was absolutely miserable, in a downward spiral of a depressive fog, and needed release. Don’t you dare look back the Spirit beckons, just keep your eyes on me, she says. We’re going somewhere new.

This conversation with the Spirit continues: I said you’re holding back, She said shut up and dance with me! This is so typical. I want to follow Christ, I want to be led to new and exciting places, but my selfishness, my brokenness, well, it still takes the lead. Look, there I go again, trying to tell the Spirit how to do her thing. It’s like when Jacob wrestles the angel to get his blessing. I want that blessing, but I want it my way. You’re holding back, I say to the Spirit, give me that blessing! She corrects me, directly, elegantly, “Shut up and dance!” she replies. “Shut up and dance with me!”

The song moves from conversation to realization: This woman is my destiny, She said oh oh oh, Shut up and dance with me! We’re being led by the Holy Spirit. Not just to dance with the divine. But to leave our pride, our selfishness, our sense of control. To leave all that, to push it aside, and to dance, letting the Spirit take the lead. That’s no easy thing, we’ll need frequent reminders to drop our perceived need for control. And to Shut up. To be at peace with following.

The lyrics then take me to another time of personal darkness: We were victims of the night, the chemical, physical, kryptonite. Helpless to the bass and faded light.  Have you ever found yourself a victim of the night, tossing and turning in bed, unable to sleep? Lying awake, not able to find the peace of a full night’s rest?

While in my depressive fog I sure had this problem. Sleep was elusive. I felt like a victim, suffering, in mental anguish. I felt alone. But the Holy Spirit suggests otherwise. *We* were victims of the night, she says. WE. We are never alone.

The chemical and physical effects of depression are inescapable. The ailment is commonly linked to low levels of serotonin, a chemical in the brain that regulates mood, memory, appetite and sleep. That’s pretty important stuff. Too little serotonin can’t help but have physical effects, like not being able to sleep. And withdrawing from friends and family. At the time this was my world.

The kryptonite reference is a curious one. Kryptonite is the radioactive element that takes away Superman’s powers, making him weak and vulnerable. Which is not unlike the effects of depression, which for a time took away anything I’d call a fulfilling life.

But that all sounds very dark and horrible; and there is more to the story. I’m reminded again that *we* were victims of the night. Me and the Holy Spirit. Having some all-nighters, hanging out together. Perhaps the chemical effects of depression, the effects that drew me away from certain things, were drawing me toward something new. Like this offer to dance.

The lyrics then find fate is in play: Oh we were born to get together, born to get together. We are all born in a fallen, broken state. Separated from God from the beginning. Trying to find our way back to the Garden of Eden, back to relationship with our Creator. But how? Jesus paid that price, covering our brokenness and faulty nature, restoring us to newness of life. What now? We dance. We dance into the world around us with our new dance partner, the Holy Spirit. Why yes, it’s beginning to make some sense to me, we *were* born to get together, each of us, finding new life as we dance with the Spirit.

Perhaps this is the right time to begin, the song suggests: She took my arm, I don’t know how it happened. We took the floor.  Finally, the dance has begun! It’s the Spirit that reaches out, taking your arm, leading you into the world. Do you know how it happens? I can’t say that I do. I do know this: the more I let her lead, the more adventure there is. The more fulfilling life becomes.

The lyrics then offer a reminder: She said: Oh don’t you dare look back just keep your eyes on me, I said you’re holding back, She said shut up and dance with me!  My takeaway from her reminder? There will always, always, ALWAYS be that voice in your head that wants you to take the reins back. To take the lead. To ignore the Spirit and do things your way. But we know, each of us, what happens when we try and play God. Nothing overly good. Shut up, the Spirit says. Dance with me!

The story then ends with a look ahead: Deep in her eyes, I think I see the future. I realize this is my last chance.  Dancing with the Spirit is a very intimate, personal thing. And when you do it, your future will change. You will see it differently. You will never be quite the same. And while I don’t think this is my last chance to dance with the Spirit it’s a good chance. It’s an opportunity I don’t plan to pass up.

Close
As we celebrate Pentecost today with the arrival of the Holy Spirit there is so very much to look forward to. We can physically be with one another, without the barriers of screens, gloves, and soon enough I’m sure, masks.

The distance between us can now be less than six feet. We can handshake, high five, even hug.

And if that isn’t the case for you just yet, that’s ok. We’re getting there.

You know what else we can do to celebrate this newness of life? We can dance. We can dance in right relationship with our creator, dance in right relationship with each other. We can dance in service to our neighbor, taking their hand, helping them along the way.

To help you imagine what that new dance might look like I’d like play a super fun video that uses this song, Shut Up and Dance. In it you’ll see 88 different dance scenes from various movies; you’ll likely recognize some. As you watch and listen, meditate on what this dance with the Spirit may mean.

Do you like to dance? Boy, the Holy Spirit sure does. When she asks you to dance, to be her partner, will you stand up, and follow her to the dance floor? And if you do, will you let her take the lead? Shut up and dance, the Spirit whispers. Dance with me.  Amen.

Sometime during our sophomore year in college, back in 1995, my future mother-in-law Cletis suggested Kathi and I watch a new TV show she just adored.

The show is about a group of six people, all in their 20s, that were really close, and spent a slew of time together. “They’re young, like you,” she shared. “And fun. I think you’d really like it.”

So we watched, and surprisingly, to me at least, I enjoyed it. Which was a good reminder to my almost 20-year-old self that teenagers don’t know it all. Mothers really do know best ?

The show has a memorable opening with a catchy tune. Even just humming the intro, with no words, might be enough of a clue.

DE-DE-DE-DUH-DUH-DEH-DE-DE…it’s Friends, of course.

The series follows Rachel, Ross, Monica, Phoebe, Joey and Chandler, over the course of 10 seasons and 236 episodes, as they learn to live as young adults, through life’s up and downs, supporting each other along the way.

Each episode, in its own right, mirrors the title of the show’s theme song: I’ll be there for you  by the Rembrandts.

For the six Friends always are there for each other, in profound and often funny ways.

In one scene Phoebe’s grandmother dies. When Joey and Chandler hear of it at their favorite coffeeshop, Central Perk, they hold Phoebe’s hand while Rachel rushes over and puts her arm around her. The Friends listen, support, provide empathy, helping Phoebe cope with the unexpected loss.

Phoebe shares the last thing her grandmother said to her when they were at the grocery store, “Okay dear, you go get the eggs and I’m gonna get the yogurt and we’ll meet at the checkout counter.” And y’know what? We will meet at the checkout counter,” Phoebe realizes, referring to the afterlife. The four share the insight and quietly agree.

Friends support each other in tough times, caring all the while.

In another episode Ross buys a new couch, and enlists the help of Rachel and Chandler to help move it up a flight of stairs. “Turn, turn, turn,” Ross directs, as the couch squishes Chandler’s head against the rail.

Pivot! Ross then exclaims, as they try to take another step up. Pivot! Pivot! Pivot! But the couch doesn’t pivot, and gets stuck in the staircase for good. Later needing to be cut in half to be removed.

Friends help each other move heavy things. Or at least they try ?

Then there’s the scene where Rachel is moving out of Monica’s apartment, and they’re both packing her things, reminiscing, feeling sad, even getting upset with each other. Phoebe does her best to lighten the moment, asking what it is Monica likes about Rachel.

“She folds down the pages of catalogs with things she thinks I’d like,” Monica begins.

“When I take a shower she leaves me little notes on the mirror.”

“When I fall asleep on the couch after reading, she covers me over with a blanket.”

And the before you know it their fight is over and the two embrace. Friends help us see the best in each other. Friends also resolve conflict, restoring right relationship once again.

Laundry
Three days ago, Cheyenne Steward, Jo Hutchins and I went to the laundromat in town to hand out quarters, Tide pods and snacks to customers. It’s part of a new ministry Bethesda is sponsoring the 1st Thursday of every month. The premise is simple; we help wash clothes for low- and no-income families. Because everyone deserves the dignity of wearing clean clothes.

The experience was wonderful, and got us proximate to people black, white and brown, from all sorts of walks of life. With volunteering in the community you often end up getting more from the experience than you give, being rewarded with smiles, gratitude, delightful conversation. This was one of those days.

But it was watching people’s interactions with each other that made the biggest impression.

One woman brought her dog, a super cute Pomeranian. Several others took turns walking and playing with the pooch while washers and dryers churned. Two next door neighbors drove there together, because only one of them had a car. A pregnant mother brought her young daughter, and other customers sat and talked and played with the girl the entire time. People helped each other lug laundry in and out of cars in massive piles. And when machines malfunctioned they helped each other troubleshoot the problem, getting their laundry going once again.

I soon realized these weren’t just customers or clients we were spending time with, randomly sharing space together at a store. They were a community. They knew each other. They cared for each other. With all the helping and sharing they modeled it was even more than that.

They were friends. There for each other in times of need. Because –

Friends share rides.
Friends watch each other’s kids and dogs.
Friends troubleshoot problems.
Friends help each other move heavy things.

We church folk had merely been offered the chance to join in on the fun.

Not servants
Today’s text from John 15 is unique. It’s the only place in scripture where Jesus refers to the twelve he’d travelled with not as disciples or servants, or even students.

Those labels suggest –
Levels,
Hierarchy,
Separation.

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Instead, he gives the disciples a new identity. “I have called you friends,” Christ shares.

There is mutuality in friendship. It is where the vines and branches come together as one. Friendship is where the health of one impacts the health of all.

Friendship embodies loyalty, support, relationship, trust. Friends are there for each other, in good times and bad. No matter what.

The kind of friendship Jesus refers to involves more than just a passive term. For Christ has called us friends if we do something.

If we love one another. Just as Christ has loved us.

Christ makes a bold claim here: to love is to be a friend.
In matters of faith love and friendship are synonymous.

They are one in the same.

We can take this linguistic twist for a spin in some fun ways. Consider the greatest commandment using the language of friendship.

You shall be friends with the Lord your God, giving of all your heart and soul and mind. And you shall befriend your neighbor, treating them as well as you treat yourself.

The life of Christ, viewed another way, offers an interesting twist too. Consider Jesus’ resume, and what we are to emulate, through the lens of friendship.

Friends heal the sick.
Friends feed the hungry.
Friends clothe those without.
Friends calm fears.
Friends turn water to wine.
Friends welcome the immigrant.
Friends embrace people others discard.

Faithful friends do all that, not out of obligation, or because it’s the right thing to do. They do all that because living in friendship with God’s beloved brings us into divine harmony with one another. It brings us back to the original plan.

As it once was.
As it can be again.

Just as God walked side-by-side with Adam and Eve in the garden, we are to walk with others, as friends, modeling the friendship Christ extends to us.

A study conducted last year found over half of pet owners in the US say their dogs have more friends than they do. Think about that for a second. Many of our dogs have more friends than we do! Perhaps our furry friends have something to teach us of the importance of connecting with others.

Especially given Christ’s call to friend one another. Just as Christ has friended us.

Pivot
Returning to the Friends theme song for just a bit, consider the lyrics in a new light. As you listen, remember the friend we have in Christ. Be reminded of the importance of friendship with one another.

So no one told you life was gonna be this way
Your job’s a joke, you’re broke
Your love life’s DOA
It’s like you’re always stuck in second gear
When it hasn’t been your day, your week, your month
Or even your year, but
I’ll be there for you
(When the rain starts to pour)
I’ll be there for you
(Like I’ve been there before)
I’ll be there for you
(‘Cause you’re there for me too)

Love one another, yes. But take it a step further. As you encounter people through the journeys of life, no matter who they may be, try something else.

Be a friend. Amen.